Silly Foolishness

Is it foolish to think that someday I'll find a man right for me? A man who loves God, and man that has some country, some cowboy in him, a man with a kind heart? Personality? A man with a sense of humor, fun to be with? I know some people who seem to have already found their perfect somebody and others who are beaten down and worn out looking because it always seems to fail. It seems so strange because we have only just begun our lives at the ages of 18, 19, 20 even. Is finding your true love just fate, like the fairytales all say? I'm sure it must have something to do with who you are and where you are going. And yet still some friends seem to settle for anybody just to be able to let the words 'I have a boyfriend' slip from their lips. Is it foolish to feel discouraged sometimes. To feel it may be forever before you're there with the person who you are supposed to be with. Or maybe it's foolish to believe that instead of settling for anyone and trying to pretend, that soon you'll find them in the most unexpected place and the most unexpected moment, who knows...And certainly it's foolishness to imagine yourself with that someone running through the rain in an open field, throwing soap when washing cars, taking a thousand and one photogrpahs of eachother. It must be foolish to image that someday you'll be with someone who you can talk to about anything, not exactly the same as a best friend, but more. It couldn't be the same for women always have a woman best friend. But they would be your best friend. Is it foolish to think, you would like to go into something without the intention of getting divorced an remarried a hundred times, and actually spending the rest of your life with that person. Is it foolish to think that one day it will just click when you realize that you are best friends and you find yourself wanting to spend more and more time together. Sometimes it seems it should fit together in that foolish fairtale order, right? I suppose then it would also be foolish to believe in love songs and romantic movies, wouldn't it? And it most definitely would be foolish to get a slight boost of hope we we see or hear these things. So is it foolish then to believe in hope? Foolish to believe in some kind of fate? Foolish to believe that what seems impossible, isn't? That seems foolish in and of itself at moments to believe that those can't be true...but if it is true, then it must be foolish to believe in any love at all, which I know isn't true. So maybe because I am young, or maybe because I can't help getting that bubbly feeling inside when I hear a love song or watch a romantic movie, or maybe for the sake of believing in the impossible, I'll stay foolish for just a bit longer <3

Just some inspiration and thought...for I have heard all the stories out there.